I’m often asked, “As a professional organizer, is it easier for you to let things go? You must not have any junk or knick knacks because you’re the expert in getting rid of clutter.”

That’s mostly true, but not the whole story.

Often we hold onto things based on the emotional value they provide, which they spark in our memories. Sometimes the object reminds us of an intention to do something. Other times, we just don’t want to get rid of something we spent money on, whether or not it is actually useful in our lives.

My clients are asked to determine the value of the item they are keeping. Value is measured in two forms: Functional Usefulness and Emotional Attachment.

To illustrate, I’ll tell you a story about myself.

My Dad owned a Chinese/Western food restaurant. It was a small neighborhood eatery, visited by the locals. Think back to times of Pink Ladies, Fuzzy Navels, Shirley Temples and Rob Roys.

He had quite the following. There were line-ups out the door every weekend. The community where he was located has a strong Scottish clientele. Imagine, a Chinese food restaurant hosting Robby Burns Day ceremonies, turning out authentic Haggis and entertaining the sell-out crowds with Highland Dancers and full Robby Burns Day ceremonies.

Dad was presented with his own kilt, brought back from a loyal patron on a visit back to Scotland. He wore it every year during the ceremonies. When my Dad passed away, we buried him with his kilt. I remember George, a regular restaurant patron, playing the bagpipes as we followed his casket at the graveyard.

One thing that I did keep of my Dad’s was this statue, made by another loyal patron — complete with glasses cut out of black construction paper and the black marker scribble for Dad’s mustache. The base of the statute reads “Hamish McChu”.

Just think of me as Linda Chu from the McChu clan…

Dad looks over me each night from atop of my wardrobe in the bedroom. What value does this item bring to me, you ask? Emotional or usefulness? You decide. Contact me and let me know what you think. Best regards.

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